Why DO I Care About Men?
A viewer recently made a comment on one of my recent videos asking me why I do what I do. Why do I care about men?
Well, if you know my story, you know I came to be a dating and relationship expert by personal experience… in that I sucked at both!
Long story longer: obsessive study of psychology and relationships, experimentation and practicing what I was learning, and listening to experts and non-experts.
Bottom line, I wanted to save others from the heart-wrenching struggles I’d had.
I start working with women but my direct (masculine) approach didn’t gel well with most of them.
Then I got my first male client!
What a difference!
Men and Women are Different
Men are so wonderfully logical! I’d suggest something and if it made sense they accepted it and, if motivated to change, tried the suggestions, which lead them to success.
Woohoo! Most rewarding feeling everrrr.
Women accept the concept, but emotionally reject changing and often refuse to do anything different.
This was my early experience coaching women who came to me to be coached!
So, I switched to working with men.
After jumping into the male-focused end of the pool, I discovered (as you’ve probably seen from some of the comments on my YouTube videos) some men get emotionally triggered by info they don’t like just like us ladies do!
#notalwayslogical #sometimesemotional #wtfannaj
Everyone, men, women and those identifying anywhere in the rainbow, lack relationship savvy.
We’re not only not taught this stuff in school or along the way but, because of feminism, what young people are taught is political correctness, which is biologically incorrect info about the innate nature of (straight) men and women.
Those who are trying to teach the new generations might mean well, but they’ve led many astray!
Time to Relearn a New Thing or Two
Wherever it comes from, I’m a problem solver.
failed practice relationships, I really did obsess about figuring out what I was doing wrong in my relationships.
Along the way, I also learned what men do “wrong” and while I take full responsibility for my part in my past relationship outcomes, I realized we all need a bit of guidance.
If you’re ready to learn where you’ve gone wrong in the past and where you’ve gone right but maybe chose the wrong partner, you’ll benefit from my WakeUP2Luv program.
WakeUP2Luv provides the step-by-step to-do’s in the areas of your life where you’ll benefit most, which might not be in the love category!
The program is work, both at home and in the real world (adjustable for pandemics!) but it’s not scary AND there’s a no-questions-asked 100% money back guarantee if you don’t like it for any reason.
No risk, big reward.
If you do the work, it WILL change your life. At least, that’s what the grads tell me! 😉
Lots of love, Anna 🥰
My First Video – Published Feb 2016!
Yes, I was nervous. I felt the fear and I did it anyway and over the years my videos have improved.
But it only happened because I took the first step and then didn’t give up.
You got this!